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« on: March 12, 2007, 04:37:09 PM »

Sex problems or better ideas here.
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« Reply #1 on: March 13, 2007, 07:46:10 PM »

Better Ideas for sex,, well I will need to think about that one Corey.. Now that I am up there in age I seem to be an expert on the subject not sure I want to share.  Wink Grin
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« Reply #2 on: March 13, 2007, 07:48:54 PM »

For some reason, just doing the dishes or laundry or some housechores really seems to help me..  I don't have an addiction problem, just a lack of..  Ha!  I'm sure if all the limits were removed - I'd definitely have a problem Roll Eyes  What keeps your sex life healthy?
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« Reply #3 on: March 19, 2007, 09:46:10 PM »

Well come on.. don't be shy!  You know this is a good topic... 
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« Reply #4 on: March 19, 2007, 10:33:06 PM »

I read this today on the Purpose Driven message for the day, and seemed appropriate. This is my feelings on the topic of sex.
"Mission – A friend of mine in a difficult marriage once told me that he and his wife had not been physically intimate for several years. They went to a marriage counselor, and as they worked on the troublesome issues of their relationship, his wife agreed to do what my grandmother might have called “her wifely duties.”
But my friend said this led to the physical, but not the intimacy. He could tell his wife was acting out of obligation and not out of love. Because the physical intimacy flowed from the fountain of duty, it became just another chore. My friend, who admitted he'd contributed considerably toward causing the marriage to crumble, said, "I never thought I'd say this, but I'd rather not have physical intimacy than to have my wife feel like she's forced to do this."

It was a painful lesson for him, learning that physical intimacy flows from emotional intimacy, that it is the overflow of a deep, abiding love between two people wholeheartedly committed to each other. I learned this since entering recovery, and it was not an easy lesson as sex was my motive for a very long time. Now I don't have it and i am ok with waiting for it, because it will be awesome.
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« Reply #5 on: May 17, 2007, 06:58:02 PM »

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 okay guys... i guess im gonna go ahead and jus step up and admitt to my sex addiction.  I really want to help in getting this site jumpin. I think this is a great place for people to have some guidance, support, & positive influence. More people should know about this place. Im gonna tell all my friends to visit too so therefore this is a lil hard for me cuz im embarressed and when i think of sex i naturaly think nasty!  but i know this is a serious topic 4 a serious problem which i myself have struggled with for 4 1/2 years already. I became aware of my problem about 3 yrs ago when I had started reading the book "The Purpose Driven Life" I became consciencously aware of the nature of my sin and for the first time started to feel guilty for fornicating. My heart soon became so heavy with the burden of this sin in my everyday life that I could no longer enjoy our sex life. Soon after I broke off the 2yr relationship because I felt that it was the only thing at that time seperating me from christ and hindering me from have the relationship with him in which I desired.
Funny thing 6wks later I became aware that I was pregnant. I never thought Id get thru that, I couldnt even imagine how my life could get any more messed up and figured I was probabley as far from god as i could possibly get.
Well today I am happy to say that GOD DONT MAKE MISTAKES!
I cant imagine my life without her and because of her I now want to be a better woman.
I somehow have become addicted to this lifestyle for some reason I cant really be honest with myself in this area yet but this is the first step in admitting that this is even a problem for me which it is a huge one. To put it lightly....most people think Im a %%%% star!    sigh!

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« Reply #6 on: May 23, 2007, 08:46:53 PM »

Some guys would think you were the perfect woman!!  But I can understand your frustration when it actually becomes a problem.  When all you can think about is sex and nasty thoughts.  About wanting to do it with everyone in sight who turns you on.  That is an addiction.  I think you're on the right path.  Admitting the problem and seeking God's purpose.  Thanks for sharing..  I know a lot of people can RELATE!

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